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Cake day: June 24th, 2023

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  • Probably it is a bad idea. But life is nothing but choices either good or bad we have to learn live with.

    My first concern is the birth control. And what happens if it fails.

    There are other good ideas in the thread: to charge a token amount of rent with a rental agreement. You have to have a way of legally remove an unwanted guest.

    Probably having some strict rules put in writing for her - even if she is a real angel - would help also in the long run.

    Most people won’t spend their life wih their high school sweetheart. This is a very strong thing you have to able to defend both kids from. They need the freedom of the ability to break up without putting any one in an awkward situation. The convenience should not lock the girl into a situation that she could have been better out of. Or the boy would feel guilt so he wouldn’t break up with her, so she won’t turn “homeless”. You can never know.

    Maybe getting her a student apartment somewhere else would be a way better option. Maybe there are goverment or student grants for her to apply?






  • The frowning upon is religion based values. On the other hand multipe wives and no other husbands allowed is also religion based.
    Next question would be why is same sex marriage frowned upon?

    There is a reason why ancient societies were matriarchy based. It was always easy to tell who the mother was. And because of that the wealth was tied to the mother’s bloodline instead of the father’s.
    If you want a real - future proof inheritance system: leave everything to the mother than as she dies the children get everything.

    One on one pairing is more fair with big numbers. You no longer have to take your brother’s widow as a wife, you do not need to marry to make sure you have one extra goat to milk ar having a maid and incubator for the next generation.
    Humans generally speaking do not need to make more than 2 kids. Your bloodline won’t die out because of modern medicine. Nobody’s bloodline worth anything anyway. Your genes are not that superior.

    So there is no logical reason to support a one sided marriage system.
    Now open polyamory where everyone is on board, equal, open about it and can leave any time - go ahead that totally green light from me.